Have I Moved On?

Have I Moved On?

Seleksi alam itu berlaku di segala lini kehidupan kita; termasuk pertemanan. Setiap orang pasti punya pengalaman yang berbeda-beda, tapi kata kebanyakan orang, semakin kita dewasa, teman kita semakin dikit. Aku tidak tahu ‘dikit’ ini seberapa, karena dikit dan banyak itu sangat relatif. Namun, bagiku yang jelas, seleksi alam berlaku. Temanku yang masih membersamai aku sampai sekarang, bukan sekedar teman haha hihi, tapi teman yang aku bisa cerita dan diskusi apa saja, dari hal serius sampai remeh temeh. Dari teman jalan, teman kerja, teman komunitas, teman podcast, dan teman ngopi. Ain’t nobody got time for fake friends right.

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#NA2 Ex-boyfriends

#NA2 Ex-boyfriends

I don’t mind talking about exes. I don’t have any feelings for them anymore, and I wonder why I was so crazy in love with them. hahaha! Anyway, I never write about this topic before, except the last one though.

I have three exes. (Mantan gebetan ga termasuk kan?). If it is included, I do not remember how many gebetan that I had because I never included them as a ‘serious relationship’. I don’t know what is it in English, I don’t think English have the concept of gebetan anyway.

The first and the second one when I was in senior high school. The third one is when I was in college. When I was in 10th grade, my school has 8 classes for 10th grade, I was included in X3. Saputra and Setio, not their real name, also in X3. At first, Setio and I were a best friend, but actually, I did like him, more than a friend. I don’t know why I liked him, it was so stupid. He was a bad guy, and I used to love bad guys. *ugh *I know 😏

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At that time, Setio already had a girlfriend, s didn’t bother him with her girlfriend. Meanwhile, I was closed to Saputra. I couldn’t remember why we were so close. After a while, we texted a lot, he asked me whether I wanted to be his girlfriend. I don’t even remember how did it happen. But, I do remember that my heart was pounding when he said that he loved me. It feels so good when somebody likes me and says it. So, finally, we were in a relationship.

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Bedanya Cowok dan Cewek Kalau Curhat

Bedanya Cowok dan Cewek Kalau Curhat

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Teman-teman semua tau curhat kan? Ituloh, curahatan hati. Ketika seseorang mempunyai masalah lalu mencurahkan perasaan dia itu ke orang lain. Curhat itu sendiri adalah proses katarsis. Kalau kata Kamus Besar Bahasa Indonesia, cara pengobatan orang yang berpenyakit saraf dengan membiarkannya menuangkan segala isi hatinya dng bebas; kelegaan emosional setelah mengalami ketegangan dan pertikaian batin akibat suatu lakuan dramatis. Intinya satu: mencurahkan isi hati dan bercerita.

Semua orang pasti pernah melakukan katarsis dengan cara curhat. Ya kan, ya kan? Nggak salah kok curhat itu. Bahkan itu bagus karena bisa mengurangi stress dan kita sebagai manusia yang makhluk sosial itu otomatis membutuhkan orang lain. Selain itu, kita dikatakan lebih kreatif memecahkan masalah orang lain daripada masalah sendiri. See, curhat is needed. :mrgreen:

Yang menarik adalah ketika cowok dan cewek itu curhat, mereka melakukannya dengan cara yang berbeda. Read more